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Lessons I’m Learning from my Dog

About 5 months ago I decided, sort of on a whim, but sort of not, to get a dog. To be fair my kids and I had just watched Homeward Bound… so my judgment might have been a bit skewed… at the time. Anyways, this cute little guy popped up on my facebook page and I...

Marathons and Showing Up

This is a story about a marathon… but not really. It’s about much much more. I am a slow processor. It takes me a few days to wrap my mind and heart around what I’ve experienced or done and this last weekend, I ran a marathon. I signed up for this thing, well let me...

Maybe We Just Get Back to the Basics Sometimes…

I don’t know what your instagram ads look like but here’s a brief sampling of what mine include:  Try this supplement to regulate your hormones so you can drop 15 pounds Try this energy tablet so you can have more energy throughout your day Buy this course of how to...

When You Don’t Know What to Say

Y’all. Grief sucks. Period. There is no way around it, no way to truly avoid it. I tell clients all the time that you can welcome grief or it will make its way in, somehow. Which sucks, right? But you know what’s worse? Grieving something with and around...

When Things Need to End

I love the beginning of a new month and for some reason, today being August 1st is really resonating with me. Maybe it’s because there has been a TON, and I mean a TON of change in my personal life or I’m just really hopeful that getting out of the summer...

There’s a season for that…

About 6 months ago I joined a new gym. And the reasons why I chose this gym were very specific. At this gym all I had to do was show up for a class, and do the things the trainer told me to do. They were group classes, so I wouldn’t be slogging away at some...

New Year, New You… No Thanks.

Ok. Let’s do this. This is the year. We are making it happen.  No more sugar.  Way less drinking.  It’s time to reign in the spending.  I should be reading at least 2 books a month.  I’m going to work-out everyday.  10,000 steps a day for life.  No screens after 9pm,...

Taking Back Movement

I want to be really careful with the content I’m writing about today. What I want to share with you has been saving my life but it has also been a source of a lot of distress in past versions of my life. I’m talking about moving my body. Notice I didn’t use “exercise”...

Right or Wrong

When I first became a mom one of the things that was most shocking to me was how, um, what’s a nice way to say it… neurotic I became. And please hear me, that’s putting it gently.  Everything mattered, all the time, to such a high intensity. Every decision, every...

Self-Compassion in the Time of Couch Blobs

Today is October 31st, which means my blog post is due. I thought about texting Candace and saying “Look, I just don’t got it this month.” Spoiler alert, there’s no grand point I’m going to end at. At least, I don’t think. I guess we’ll see where this ends up. But I...